I was suffering from this kind of comments for many many many years because I have 3 elder sisters at home!! Those 8-women can only see '阻地方!嘥錢!' and I had suffered enough from them.
Lucky I moved away for a long long time and I am a happier man now with no 8-women next to me to make stupid comments.
Now I have a very understanding wife All I have to say to my wife is: 'look, I do not mess around, don't drink, don't gamble, only go to work and go home, don't you think I deserve a little bit of not-too-expensive hobby?'